Joining in can feel like a big step. Try these short, low-pressure activities together at home. Your child can practise with you before trying them with peers.
1. Listen for a clue
Take turns talking about a favourite game, book or activity. Ask: “What are they talking about?” Then think of one question or comment that fits the topic.
Try saying: “You’re talking about Minecraft. What are you building?”
2. Find a pause and try an opener
Role-play a short conversation. Practise waiting for a brief pause, then using a simple opening. Looking directly into someone’s eyes is not necessary; listening and joining in can look different for different people.
Try saying: “Can I join you?” or “I like that game too.”
3. Take one turn, then make room
Practise adding one thought or asking one question, then leaving space for a reply. If the other person is busy or does not respond, it is okay to try again later or talk to someone else.
Try saying: “Which character is your favourite?”
Keep it encouraging: A few minutes is enough. Notice the effort: “You found a pause and asked a question.” Let your child choose when to practise.
Practise with peers at Positive Kids
Our small social skills groups offer guided opportunities to practise friendship and communication. The children’s program is for ages 4–12, grouped by age, over five weekly sessions. The teen program is for ages 13–16 over four weekly sessions.
Explore the groups and registration options or ask intake about the next group.